In our last episode we talked about suffering for doing good. Today we want to build on that and wrestle with the reality that suffering can enable us to connect with others. Think about the simplicity of these two statements:
- Our sin caused a separation, a disconnect with God Himself.
- Jesus suffered to restore that connection.
But does our suffering enable us to connect with God? Not to restore our relationship with Him. The finished work of Jesus on the cross is the only thing that makes that connection possible. Our suffering, however, can make our relationship with Him much deeper and sweeter. Paul said in Philippians 3:10 that He wanted to, “Know Christ and the power of His resurrection and the fellowship of His sufferings.” When we suffer in the same way or a similar way as someone else it creates an opportunity for a deep bond to be formed.
Jesus was reviled and persecuted and all kinds of evil things were said against Him. In Matthew 5:11 He tells us we are blessed when these things happen to us as well.
In addition, our suffering positions us to comfort others. Paul told the Corinthians, “the Father of mercies and God of all comfort. . .comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble.” He goes on to say in II Cor. 1:5, “For as the sufferings of Christ abound in us, so our consolation (or comfort) also abounds in Christ.”
When grapes are crushed, sweet wine is produced. When olives are pressed, precious oil comes forth. We know from experience that one of the best places to connect is around a table and a good meal. Just like with physical food, some of the best spiritual food is created through suffering. It is made possible through times where we felt crushed and pressed in on from all sides.
If you find yourself in a difficult season where you are suffering for doing good, ask Father for grace to lean in. Ask Him to reveal His love and mercy to you in the midst of it and thank Him for allowing you to suffer with Him. This will position you to be ready to comfort others in their suffering when the time comes to do so.
Grace, grace, to you, my friend!
